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How To Give Her Orgasm To Remember

With all of the advice on sex out there, it can be confusing or downright intimidating to the average Joe who is looking to increase their performance in the bedroom. The truth is, though, most of the advice of these so-called sexperts is either too basic or too complex for you to remember when the curtain is drawn and you’re suddenly overcome by those primal urges and, possibly, bad habits.

sexual-satisfactionMen can’t help it, we were made with very basic sexual needs, while women are much more advanced and respond differently to different stimulation.

This guide is created to cover various techniques that you can easily add to your sex game, which can be shared with the woman that you’re trying to give said mind-blowing orgasm to.

  • K.I.S.S. – Keep it Simple, Stupid

The average sex expert will make you think complex sex positions or techniques need to be memorized like a field manual in order to give pleasure to all women.

What you should be doing: The real truth is that if you’re thinking too much about what you’re doing, that means you’re not paying attention to the woman’s reactions and subtle cues that lead you to her orgasm.

  • Under the Hood

Men have come to learn the importance of the clitoris and how it is required to bring the majority of all women to climax, but most miss the fact that the clitoris is more than just that pearl sticking out.

What you should be doing: When you pull back the clitoral hood, make sure your tongue is paying service to the entire shaft of the clit, including above and below it with your tongue. Sucking and humming on the clitoris allows you to reach nerve endings that are hiding under the hood, so alternate with those motions and you’ll give more pleasure and more depth to the orgasm.

  • Switch Gears

This might sound obvious to more experienced guys out there, but simply drilling your lover as much as possible before you orgasm is not a solid strategy. Women are most receptive to subtle changes in strokes and getting the best “friction” inside the vagina, so to speak. That means different things for every woman, as no vagina is identical.

What you should be doing: In order to maximize each thrust into her and make sure you’re getting the best bang for your buck, you have to experiment with different angles, speeds, and patterns. That means going slow, even stopping, can lead to more pleasure for a woman if you keep her begging for more. Going hard and fast is obviously money when she needs a quickie or if there has been enough buildup for her to demand it, but in most situations: variety is the spice.

  • anal-playButt, Play for Fun

Anal play is by far the biggest trend for the next generation of lovemaking.

That doesn’t mean every woman is having full-on anal sex, but it does mean that it is much less taboo to have some type of anal stimulation. Simply rubbing the outside of her anus can be enough to send her over the edge.

What you should be doing: Obviously, anal play requires great comfort between both parties, always communicate your interest in playing with her butt before attempting to put anything near there. With that said, start things slow with just a finger while going at it doggy, it’s important for her to be aroused first. With enough lube and patience, anal can be an easy way to bring your woman to orgasm, even if it doesn’t progress to full-on sex.

In short, it’s all about increasing the layers of pleasure to send her over the edge.

 

Why having a bigger penis should not be your desire

The size of a man’s penis is automatically tied to his manhood, how much he can please his woman, but most of us know that is merely an antiquated stereotype that just refuses to die.

There are many reasons why you should be happy to be an owner of a five or six incher, which is the average size of all men in the world. Even if yours is smaller than the average, you shouldn’t let it determine your happiness, as it certainly doesn’t mean you can never please a woman. Let’s look at all the reasons why having a bigger penis isn’t the ticket to instant happiness.

big-dickBig dicks intimidate and awe.

Many women are afraid of big dicks in real life. Unlike pornstars who have trained their bodies to take a pounding, your average gal needs to be comfortable with any lover they sleep with, especially one with a 11inch cock that curves to the side.

Keep in-mind, the average size of a woman’s vagina is 5inches. The coveted G-spot is a mere 1 inch deep. Large dicks are more likely to hit the back of a woman’s cervix, which IS painful to most women.

How you use it always matters.

The common consensus among women is that a man that knows how to pleasure them and hit the right spots is always preferred over a man who has a bigger penis but is a selfish lover. If you have a small penis, you will be trying harder to give a woman pleasure by listening to her and implementing all aspects of a successful lovemaking session.

Guys with small members typically will curve up, if you’re one of those, you will make a lot of women happy by mastering the G-spot pound. Women love to grind on a man’s dick when they ride on top, too, so their pleasure is increased greatly for men whose penis lines right up with them.

great-sexAnother added bonus of having a small penis is the increased likelihood of having anal sex with any woman who has never tried it. In fact, most women who dislike anal sex have usually had a bad first experience with a guy who has a large penis and the shock of something so massive entering them.

Improve your penis size and strength.

Just because you have a small penis, doesn’t mean you can’t make it bigger, harder, and stronger. A popular method of increasing a man’s size and strength is through the use of cock rings. These little bands will increase the blood flow into your penis and prevent it from escaping, giving you stronger and harder erections. Some men already enjoy squeezing the base of their cock and balls, like a cock ring, because it adds more sensitivity to the head and shaft and pulling the balls just feels good.

An added bonus to using cock rings is more stamina and stronger orgasms. Before going out and buying any, be sure to avoid metal cock rings for your first buy, these can create serious problems if you can’t get them off after you’ve already blown your load and have blood flow trapped for a long period of time.

Taking things one step further, men with small penises will often pair their cock ring with a penis pump to really take advantage of the concentration of blood flow. This can also cure erectile dysfunction problems without the use of male enhancement supplements.

A man with a small penis can perform just as well as one with a large one in the bedroom. Improving your foreplay and oral skills will keep your girl more than satisfied, even if she does actually prefer bigger dicks. The key lies in being able to serve the needs of your partner, not satisfying your own ego, which any woman will agree is not the norm in society.

Having Erection Problems and How to Solve It

It happens to the best of us, even the studs in your favorite x-rated films: problems getting it up or going limp in the middle of a lovemaking session, every man’s worst nightmare. The key is to remember that you’re not a freak and chances are very good that you don’t have something wrong with your own equipment. While there are some who have never been able to get rock-hard erections that may suffer from circulatory or other biological problems, for most of us, it’s more of a bump in the road as we get older.

Before anyone can solve your erection problems, it’s important to know the situation, as there are many common, and often minor, reasons for preventing an erection.

Have you been out of practice for a long time and suddenly find that it’s taking you longer to get hard or requires more effort to stay hard? Has it been a gradual decrease in hardness? Both of these scenarios point towards mental problems, one with stress/anxiety and the other with focus-related issues.

no-erectionLet’s take a look at these common mental blocks and more with tips on how to return to that boyhood vigor you enjoyed.

Stress and Confidence

The two of these problems are not the same, yet they affect your libido and erections the same way. Too much stress and your mind is locked out from really experiencing outside stimuli and being “in the moment” when your lover is showing you how turned-on they are.

Not enough confidence means you’re overthinking about everything and not allowing you to just “feel good” and let the blood flow to where it needs to be: in your cock, plain and simple.

Low confidence is easily overcome through lots of practice and getting past any hesitation to communicate with your partner. Stress obviously needs to be addressed by what is causing you to be stressed, rather than treating the symptoms.

Old Habits Die Hard

It’s too easy to assume it has to be a physical problem when you used to get hard as an ox within seconds of watching erotica. The truth is, though, your viewing habits can be your worst enemy or your greatest ally, depending on how you use it.

The average experience of our young, horny, and insatiable selves is typical all about busting a nut as soon as possible to avoid detection. If this masturbation habit carries into our adult life, it creates an unrealistic situation when it comes time to perform. Not to mention that you stick to the same sitting position and hand strokes, which tells the brain that variety is discouraged.

You can improve your erections by improving your masturbation habits.

Start by incorporating the “edging technique” into your erotica viewing. This is essentially about exercising your penis and gaining control over your erection. With edging instructions that you can find online, you will learn to harness your mental and physical power through breathing and positive feedback from learning to stroke yourself to the edge of your orgasm and stopping, yet staying fully aroused and rock hard.

Edging also helps treat premature ejaculation, which obviously can spell the end of an erection. Edging can even teach you the rare ability to cum multiple times. This is because edging maintains a high state of arousal and even if you fail to stop an ejaculation, your high arousal will make you want to keep going (using your cum as lube is a nice bonus!).

Final Tips to Get Started

eroticaA good strategy that may not be mentioned in edging guides is to find some good movies that is best suited for longer sessions.

Eroic romance is a great category, even if it’s not your favorite, because of the pacing and long scenes. There are also edging-specific compilations, sometimes called “challenges,” that motivate you to keep “it” up.

Reaching for alternative male enhancement supplements can also be a solution for you, but these should be a last resort when all other options and outside factors have been accounted for.

Read more: http://www.medicinenet.com/erectile_dysfunction_ed_impotence/article.htm