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How To Give Her Orgasm To Remember

With all of the advice on sex out there, it can be confusing or downright intimidating to the average Joe who is looking to increase their performance in the bedroom. The truth is, though, most of the advice of these so-called sexperts is either too basic or too complex for you to remember when the curtain is drawn and you’re suddenly overcome by those primal urges and, possibly, bad habits.

sexual-satisfactionMen can’t help it, we were made with very basic sexual needs, while women are much more advanced and respond differently to different stimulation.

This guide is created to cover various techniques that you can easily add to your sex game, which can be shared with the woman that you’re trying to give said mind-blowing orgasm to.

  • K.I.S.S. – Keep it Simple, Stupid

The average sex expert will make you think complex sex positions or techniques need to be memorized like a field manual in order to give pleasure to all women.

What you should be doing: The real truth is that if you’re thinking too much about what you’re doing, that means you’re not paying attention to the woman’s reactions and subtle cues that lead you to her orgasm.

  • Under the Hood

Men have come to learn the importance of the clitoris and how it is required to bring the majority of all women to climax, but most miss the fact that the clitoris is more than just that pearl sticking out.

What you should be doing: When you pull back the clitoral hood, make sure your tongue is paying service to the entire shaft of the clit, including above and below it with your tongue. Sucking and humming on the clitoris allows you to reach nerve endings that are hiding under the hood, so alternate with those motions and you’ll give more pleasure and more depth to the orgasm.

  • Switch Gears

This might sound obvious to more experienced guys out there, but simply drilling your lover as much as possible before you orgasm is not a solid strategy. Women are most receptive to subtle changes in strokes and getting the best “friction” inside the vagina, so to speak. That means different things for every woman, as no vagina is identical.

What you should be doing: In order to maximize each thrust into her and make sure you’re getting the best bang for your buck, you have to experiment with different angles, speeds, and patterns. That means going slow, even stopping, can lead to more pleasure for a woman if you keep her begging for more. Going hard and fast is obviously money when she needs a quickie or if there has been enough buildup for her to demand it, but in most situations: variety is the spice.

  • anal-playButt, Play for Fun

Anal play is by far the biggest trend for the next generation of lovemaking.

That doesn’t mean every woman is having full-on anal sex, but it does mean that it is much less taboo to have some type of anal stimulation. Simply rubbing the outside of her anus can be enough to send her over the edge.

What you should be doing: Obviously, anal play requires great comfort between both parties, always communicate your interest in playing with her butt before attempting to put anything near there. With that said, start things slow with just a finger while going at it doggy, it’s important for her to be aroused first. With enough lube and patience, anal can be an easy way to bring your woman to orgasm, even if it doesn’t progress to full-on sex.

In short, it’s all about increasing the layers of pleasure to send her over the edge.

 

Increasing your Ejaculate Volume to Cum More

Unless you’re considering your personal fertility, most people don’t pay attention to the amount of semen that they ejaculate. What those same people don’t realize is that there is a direct relationship between the amount of sperm that your body produces and your overall sexual potency. Put simply, the more sperm you have, the more potent that you’ll be in the bedroom.

How, you might ask?

Read on and discover the simple, painless trick to having amazing, mind-blowing orgasms by increasing your ejaculate volume.

Sperm Volume is the Key

The more ejaculate you produce, the more intense and pleasurable that your orgasm will become. The length of your orgasm is tied directly to the length of time it takes your body to release all of the semen you have stored up. Increasing the volume of your ejaculate also has a variety of other benefits, including:

  • Increased potency.
  • More frequent erections
  • Harder, stronger erections
  • Increased sex drive
  • Increased desire

cum-more-adviceSome studies have shown that having sex more often is tied directly to increased sperm production.

Producing enough sperm to keep up with an active sex live also help to ensure overall reproductive health, by constantly keeping blood flowing through the groin and genital area. This encourages healthy tissue growth.

How can I Increase my Ejaculate Volume?

In addition to semen enhancement, there are a few things that you can do to help you cum more. Would you like to know what the easiest and most important step is?

Maintaining an active sex life and… change your diet.

A healthy, balanced, and vitamin rich diet can help to increase your ejaculate volume by adding a variety of vitamins and minerals that may be lacking in a diet filled with fast food and processed meals. Many diets are lacking in:

  • Vitamin C
  • Vitamin E
  • Zinc
  • B-12
  • Selenium
  • L-Carnitine

And a variety of other trace minerals and elements that are essential to healthy sperm production. By changing your eating habits, not only will you increase your sperm and ejaculate volume, but you will begin to feel better overall. A healthy diet can help you increase your energy levels and lose weight as well, both of which can help increase your sexual satisfaction and your overall enjoyment of life.

semen-pillsAre Semen Pills a Good Option?

There are a variety of herbal supplements marketed as a way to help increase your sperm count and ejaculate volume, but are they a good option?

Herbal semen pills can be a great tool to help you cum more sperm if you have already taken the steps to change your diet and still find some trace minerals or vitamins missing from your diet. They are not, by any means, a cure all and should always be taken according to directions.

If you do decide to take semen pills, it is important to monitor both your results and any possible side effects that you may experience. Also, if you are currently taking any medications, make sure to consult with your doctor before adding any supplements to your diet, because they may interact with your current prescriptions.

FertilityWanna Cum More? Beware of Fertility!

Increasing your ejaculate volume is a great way to improve your orgasms and increase your overall sexual enjoyment, but it has some problems as well.

First, increasing your overall ejaculate volume, especially if you use semen pills to achieve your results, you also increase your sperm count, which in turn increases your fertility.

Secondly, shooting more cum could cause you to overfill a condom, increasing the potential risk of pregnancy.

If you’re planning on trying to ejaculate more sperm, it’s important to talk to your partner about it too. If you’re not trying to start a family with your current partner, you may wish to either reconsider your decision, or doubling up on your current contraceptives.

Conclusions

When it comes right down to it, weak ejaculation is going to damage your sexual confidence and interfere with your ability to enjoy your sex life. If you decide to try and increase your ejaculate volume, you should always try to use the healthy techniques first. Changing your diet can have a great number of positive effects on your life outside of the bedroom as well as in.

If you do decide to start taking pills to cum more, make sure you discuss it with your doctor, and only use them as a last resort. Healthy, natural means for increasing ejaculate volume do work, but they don’t create instant or overnight results.

Looking for Love? Sex Addiction Warning!

Looking for love is hard, especially in today’s world where we’re both constantly connected and constantly separated by our reliance on technology. Online dating can be a useful tool, but it also put the user at risk of meeting a person who’s addicted to sex. Here we’ve collected a few useful bits of information to help you identify sex addicts before you become involved in a relationship that you might come to regret.

sexual-addictionWhat is a Sex Addict?

Sex addicts are defined as individuals who continue to indulge in sexual activities even when these activities cause physical or emotional pain. Those individuals often seek more and more dangerous sexual behaviors until they progress to the point of becoming sex offenders.

These behaviors can but don’t always include:

  • Adultery
  • Voyeurism
  • Illegal Exposure
  • Compulsive Masturbation
  • Pornography Addiction
  • Pedophilia
  • And others

Why don’t sex addicts just stop having sex?

Sexual addiction is not something that the individual is in control of. It is an often irreconcilable compulsion that cannot be controlled, redirected, or avoided. These compulsions can sometimes be managed by following a Twelve Steps program, similar to the programs that are offered to help alcoholic or narcotics addiction sufferers.

Is it really a serious problem?

Sex addicts often find themselves stuck in situations where they hurt those that they love. Sex addicts have lost their jobs and even been arrested due to their behavior. It’s as much an addiction as alcohol, drugs, or gambling, and it requires the same sort of support and treatment to overcome. Unfortunately, unlike drug or alcohol addiction, sex addiction comes with a stigma that causes these addicts to hide their addiction, or attempt to deal without any sort of support, making it nearly impossible to overcome the addiction.

helpWhat treatment options are available to help treat sex addiction?

The most common treatment used to professionally treat sex addiction is known as cognitive behavioral therapy or CBT. These therapy sessions help the addict learn techniques that can help them identify the events or behaviors that trigger their behaviors. If the behaviors are severe enough, they may require inpatient treatment, where the patient is restricted to a care facility until their behaviors can be controlled.

If therapy alone is not enough to help control the behaviors, prescription medications can be prescribed. Antidepressants, mood stabilizers, and other medications can help treat the symptoms of the addiction, as well as other mental illnesses that can manifest because of the addiction, such as depression and anxiety.

There have been some studies that suggest that the medication Naltrexone, which is used to reduce the effect of narcotic medication and addiction, can be useful in treating sexual addiction because it causes a marked decrease in sexual compulsion s and sex drive.

So, how can I know if I’m dating a sex addict?

While it’s impossible to diagnose a sex addict just by spending time with them, there are a few things that you can look for to help you figure out if you’re dating a sex addict.

  1. They never tell the same story twice, and you may find some inconstancies in their stories. If all they’re telling is lies to everyone, it gets hard to keep everyone’s story straight.
  2. Preoccupation with unsafe sex. If you’re not in a committed relationship and you’re not planning on starting a family, then there’s no reason to have unsafe sex. If your partner starts insisting on it, they may be fixating on the thrill of unsafe sex, which is a sign of sex addiction.
  3. No Time Alone. Serial dating is often a sign of a sex addict. The addicts jump from partner to partner, often cheating on the partner that they’re currently with.
  4. You’re asking. If you’re asking whether or not you’re dating a sex addict, then there’s a good chance that your partner has given you reason to think about it. If you feel like you’re in an unsafe or unhealthy relationship, it’s important to start eliminate those toxic people from your life.

Conclusions

If you’re worried that you might be dating a sex addict, then you should take the time to step back and consider your relationship. Sex addiction is a real issue that needs to be addressed, but it’s not something that you need to risk damaging yourself to repair.

Why Do Women Masturbate?

Yes, contrary to popular belief, women do masturbate. As is the case with men, there are plenty of reasons for women to lock the door and rub one out on their own. To help dispel some of the myths about women and masturbation, we’ve gathered some facts about the subject. Let us help clear away some of that fog.

  1. female-masturbationImproves Mood.

    Having an orgasm, via masturbation or intercourse, releases a variety of ‘feel good’ hormones, including dopamine and oxytocin. These help to create a natural high that improves women’s overall moods.  

    Having an orgasm via masturbation eliminates the pressure to perform or the stress that can occur while having sex with a partner.

  2. Helps with Sleep. Sex is a great way to exhaust yourself and fall asleep, but masturbation allows you to do the same thing without worrying about having to satisfy a partner at the same time. Masturbation, for both women and men, helps them to feel more relaxed afterward, making it easier to drift off to sleep.
  3. Can help with menstrual cramps. Orgasms cause the uterus to contract, which can help with the cramps that normal accompany monthly menstruation. Masturbation also increases heart and breathing rates, similar to exercise, which can also help to alleviate painful cramps. Many women exercise during their period specifically because it helps relieve cramps more effectively than any over the counter medication. Masturbation and orgasm has much the same effect.
  4. better-sex-lifeImproves Sex Life. One of the biggest problems that women have with sex isn’t the inability to orgasm with a partner: it’s the fact that they don’t know their own body.

    Masturbation helps women learn what works best for them while still enjoying all of the benefits of regular orgasms. It’s a win-win for both women and their partners, because if a woman is able to enjoy sex more, she is more likely to relax, achieve more orgasms, and be able to focus more on her partner as well.

    The more comfortable you are with your body, the better your sex life will be.

  5. Vibrators Come in Every Shape and Size. Masturbation doesn’t have to mean that men or women have to be restricted to using their hands. Vibrators and other sex toys come in just about every shape you can imagine (including a variety of fantasy-creature styles, if that’s what floats your boat) and there is definitely something for everyone. The best part: if you find something that doesn’t work for you that is fine! Not every toy works for every person, and there is definitely at least one toy out there that will satisfy your needs.
  6. Improves Sex Frequency.Masturbation gets a really bad reputation as a replacement for sex or something that you can become addicted to. On the contrary, masturbating on a regular basis can actually make you want to have more sex with your partner. The more you masturbate, the more you think about sex, so the more you think about sex, the more sex you want. Plus, it can be a great way to incorporate a little sensuality into your relationship when you or your partner isn’t in the mood.
  7. Multiple orgasms. This is pretty self explanatory: there is no reason, other than exhaustion, to stop at just one orgasm. Men may be limited to their single climax, but women are not restricted by such limitations. If you’ve got some time, don’t stop with just a quickie. Working toward multiple orgasms while masturbating is also a great way to learn what your partner will need to do to help you achieve the same result while having sex.
  8. No Negatives. There are, quite literally, no negatives to masturbation. You can’t get pregnant, which is one of the biggest things that cause women to shy away from sex. You can’t catch any sexual transmitted diseases. There are no negative side effects or anything that you need to worry about. Just lay back and enjoy yourself!
  9. It’s Awesome. This is the main reason both men and women masturbate: it’s freaking awesome. No strings attached orgasms are some of the best things in the world, and women enjoy it just as much as men do, if not more!

Conclusions

Hopefully we’ve managed to teach you something about women and masturbation.

Yes, women masturbate.
It’s not something that is limited exclusively to the male gender, and it really doesn’t deserve the negative reputation that it has garnered over the years. Masturbation is awesome. Period.