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Penis Enlargement: Stretching, Pills, and Pumps – Do They Work?

big-penis-sizeThere are plenty of websites, products, and companies that offer the same thing; make your penis bigger, thicker, and harder.

For many men, the idea of penis enlargement is a dream comes true.

These pills, pumps, stretchers, and surgeries all claim to be able to increase the size of the penis quickly and easily. Do these claims hold any water or are they all smoke and mirrors?

Erection Pills

There are more penis pills on the market than it is possible to count. Some claim to create harder erections, some claim to make you last longer in the bedroom, and others claim to increase the size of your penis. While some of these pills can help to increase your stamina and sexual enjoyment, none of them can increase the size of your penis, and those that claim to do so should be avoided.

erection-pillsWhat erection pills do is help to increase blood flow to the penis.

This can help to increase the hardness of your erection, and even help to increase the pleasure that you can take in your orgasms.

The increased blood flow does help to improve penis health, but it will not help to improve the size of your penis.

Pills designed to increase the hardness of your erection can make it seem like your penis has increased in size, but that is merely an illusion.

penis-pumpPenis Pumps

Air assisted and water assisted penis pumps are used to help increase the blood flow to the penis by using a vacuum to pull extra blood into the penis and add gentle tension on the tissues.   This tension causes micro tears in the tissue, similar to those that occur in muscle while you exercise. The additional blood flow to the penis encourages new tissues growth which can, over time, begin to increase the size of your penis both when erect and flaccid.

The danger with penis pumps is in the possibility of over-pumping. This becomes more of an issue with air assisted pumps, because there is no medium to prevent all of the air from being removed from the vacuum tube. Over-pumping can lead to a soft, purplish erection instead of the hard one that you’re probably looking for. It causes the capillaries within the penis to burst, releasing the blood into the surrounding tissues, much like a hickey. Unfortunately, it’s infinitely more painful and can even require a trip to the hospital to treat.

If you do choose to use a penis pump to try and increase the size of your penis, it’s important to spend the money on a high quality water assisted pump, and to always use it according to the directions. Don’t expect to see results overnight either. Penis pumping can increase the size of your penis, but it takes weeks to see any real results.

penis-stretcherPenis Stretchers

By far, the most effective way to obtain any gains in penis size is by using a penis stretcher. Also known as a penile traction device, this item uses tension to stretch the penis gently, encouraging new tissue to grow.

This over time can increase the length and girth of the penis.

These devices are most often used in the treatment of Peyronie’s disease, which is an abnormal curvature of the penis that causes the formation of painful scar tissue.

Like the penis pump, it is important to obtain a high-quality penis stretcher. If possible, consider ordering a medical grade stretcher, because it will be made of the highest quality materials and offer a great verity of customization options for different penis sizes. Many inexpensive stretchers don’t are made of cheap materials that can break if used too often, and may not work at all for below average penises.

Also, like the pump, it is important to realize that these things take time. One recent study showed that men who wore the penis stretcher for up to 12 hours a day could see results in as little as 6 weeks. Most men, though, tend to wear the stretcher for significantly shorter lengths of time and will usually see results in 20-24 weeks.

Conclusions

Penis enlargement is possible. It’s not fast, it’s not easy, and it’s not cheap, but it is possible. If you feel the need to increase the length or girth of your penis, be prepared to invest in the proper equipment, and avoid ‘miracle pills’ at all costs. There are no pills that can increase the size of your penis, period.

Increasing your Ejaculate Volume to Cum More

Unless you’re considering your personal fertility, most people don’t pay attention to the amount of semen that they ejaculate. What those same people don’t realize is that there is a direct relationship between the amount of sperm that your body produces and your overall sexual potency. Put simply, the more sperm you have, the more potent that you’ll be in the bedroom.

How, you might ask?

Read on and discover the simple, painless trick to having amazing, mind-blowing orgasms by increasing your ejaculate volume.

Sperm Volume is the Key

The more ejaculate you produce, the more intense and pleasurable that your orgasm will become. The length of your orgasm is tied directly to the length of time it takes your body to release all of the semen you have stored up. Increasing the volume of your ejaculate also has a variety of other benefits, including:

  • Increased potency.
  • More frequent erections
  • Harder, stronger erections
  • Increased sex drive
  • Increased desire

cum-more-adviceSome studies have shown that having sex more often is tied directly to increased sperm production.

Producing enough sperm to keep up with an active sex live also help to ensure overall reproductive health, by constantly keeping blood flowing through the groin and genital area. This encourages healthy tissue growth.

How can I Increase my Ejaculate Volume?

In addition to semen enhancement, there are a few things that you can do to help you cum more. Would you like to know what the easiest and most important step is?

Maintaining an active sex life and… change your diet.

A healthy, balanced, and vitamin rich diet can help to increase your ejaculate volume by adding a variety of vitamins and minerals that may be lacking in a diet filled with fast food and processed meals. Many diets are lacking in:

  • Vitamin C
  • Vitamin E
  • Zinc
  • B-12
  • Selenium
  • L-Carnitine

And a variety of other trace minerals and elements that are essential to healthy sperm production. By changing your eating habits, not only will you increase your sperm and ejaculate volume, but you will begin to feel better overall. A healthy diet can help you increase your energy levels and lose weight as well, both of which can help increase your sexual satisfaction and your overall enjoyment of life.

semen-pillsAre Semen Pills a Good Option?

There are a variety of herbal supplements marketed as a way to help increase your sperm count and ejaculate volume, but are they a good option?

Herbal semen pills can be a great tool to help you cum more sperm if you have already taken the steps to change your diet and still find some trace minerals or vitamins missing from your diet. They are not, by any means, a cure all and should always be taken according to directions.

If you do decide to take semen pills, it is important to monitor both your results and any possible side effects that you may experience. Also, if you are currently taking any medications, make sure to consult with your doctor before adding any supplements to your diet, because they may interact with your current prescriptions.

FertilityWanna Cum More? Beware of Fertility!

Increasing your ejaculate volume is a great way to improve your orgasms and increase your overall sexual enjoyment, but it has some problems as well.

First, increasing your overall ejaculate volume, especially if you use semen pills to achieve your results, you also increase your sperm count, which in turn increases your fertility.

Secondly, shooting more cum could cause you to overfill a condom, increasing the potential risk of pregnancy.

If you’re planning on trying to ejaculate more sperm, it’s important to talk to your partner about it too. If you’re not trying to start a family with your current partner, you may wish to either reconsider your decision, or doubling up on your current contraceptives.

Conclusions

When it comes right down to it, weak ejaculation is going to damage your sexual confidence and interfere with your ability to enjoy your sex life. If you decide to try and increase your ejaculate volume, you should always try to use the healthy techniques first. Changing your diet can have a great number of positive effects on your life outside of the bedroom as well as in.

If you do decide to start taking pills to cum more, make sure you discuss it with your doctor, and only use them as a last resort. Healthy, natural means for increasing ejaculate volume do work, but they don’t create instant or overnight results.

Why Do Women Masturbate?

Yes, contrary to popular belief, women do masturbate. As is the case with men, there are plenty of reasons for women to lock the door and rub one out on their own. To help dispel some of the myths about women and masturbation, we’ve gathered some facts about the subject. Let us help clear away some of that fog.

  1. female-masturbationImproves Mood.

    Having an orgasm, via masturbation or intercourse, releases a variety of ‘feel good’ hormones, including dopamine and oxytocin. These help to create a natural high that improves women’s overall moods.  

    Having an orgasm via masturbation eliminates the pressure to perform or the stress that can occur while having sex with a partner.

  2. Helps with Sleep. Sex is a great way to exhaust yourself and fall asleep, but masturbation allows you to do the same thing without worrying about having to satisfy a partner at the same time. Masturbation, for both women and men, helps them to feel more relaxed afterward, making it easier to drift off to sleep.
  3. Can help with menstrual cramps. Orgasms cause the uterus to contract, which can help with the cramps that normal accompany monthly menstruation. Masturbation also increases heart and breathing rates, similar to exercise, which can also help to alleviate painful cramps. Many women exercise during their period specifically because it helps relieve cramps more effectively than any over the counter medication. Masturbation and orgasm has much the same effect.
  4. better-sex-lifeImproves Sex Life. One of the biggest problems that women have with sex isn’t the inability to orgasm with a partner: it’s the fact that they don’t know their own body.

    Masturbation helps women learn what works best for them while still enjoying all of the benefits of regular orgasms. It’s a win-win for both women and their partners, because if a woman is able to enjoy sex more, she is more likely to relax, achieve more orgasms, and be able to focus more on her partner as well.

    The more comfortable you are with your body, the better your sex life will be.

  5. Vibrators Come in Every Shape and Size. Masturbation doesn’t have to mean that men or women have to be restricted to using their hands. Vibrators and other sex toys come in just about every shape you can imagine (including a variety of fantasy-creature styles, if that’s what floats your boat) and there is definitely something for everyone. The best part: if you find something that doesn’t work for you that is fine! Not every toy works for every person, and there is definitely at least one toy out there that will satisfy your needs.
  6. Improves Sex Frequency.Masturbation gets a really bad reputation as a replacement for sex or something that you can become addicted to. On the contrary, masturbating on a regular basis can actually make you want to have more sex with your partner. The more you masturbate, the more you think about sex, so the more you think about sex, the more sex you want. Plus, it can be a great way to incorporate a little sensuality into your relationship when you or your partner isn’t in the mood.
  7. Multiple orgasms. This is pretty self explanatory: there is no reason, other than exhaustion, to stop at just one orgasm. Men may be limited to their single climax, but women are not restricted by such limitations. If you’ve got some time, don’t stop with just a quickie. Working toward multiple orgasms while masturbating is also a great way to learn what your partner will need to do to help you achieve the same result while having sex.
  8. No Negatives. There are, quite literally, no negatives to masturbation. You can’t get pregnant, which is one of the biggest things that cause women to shy away from sex. You can’t catch any sexual transmitted diseases. There are no negative side effects or anything that you need to worry about. Just lay back and enjoy yourself!
  9. It’s Awesome. This is the main reason both men and women masturbate: it’s freaking awesome. No strings attached orgasms are some of the best things in the world, and women enjoy it just as much as men do, if not more!

Conclusions

Hopefully we’ve managed to teach you something about women and masturbation.

Yes, women masturbate.
It’s not something that is limited exclusively to the male gender, and it really doesn’t deserve the negative reputation that it has garnered over the years. Masturbation is awesome. Period.

Adding Sex Toys to the Bedroom – Good or Bad Idea?

Sex toys can be a great way to add a bit of spice to your masturbation sessions, but do they also make really good additions to the bedroom when you’re with a partner?

sex-toysDo they really add something to your sexual encounters or are they going to leave you feeling inadequate?

We’ve gathered a few tips and tricks to help you add sex toys to your intimate encounters.

Note:
Do not think that your toys are going to replace you.

The whole point of bringing sex toys into the bedroom for either partner is to enhance your sexual experience together.

By bringing some new toys into the bedroom, you can easily spice up your sex life and bring your collective orgasms to an entirely new level.

  1. Communicate. Don’t just drop a new toy or gadget on your partner. You’ve got equal chances of being met with interest and revulsion, and sex toys are not generally returnable. Before you go toy shopping, make sure you talk with your partner.

    Discuss what sort of things you want to add to your sex life and what toys you would like to try to achieve those things. You may be surprised with how open your partner is to the idea, but it’s important to broach the subject with them before you go shopping.

  2. Start slow. If you want to try something new, start out slow and work your way up. If bondage is the newest thing you want to try, don’t spend a ton of time learning shibari rope styles when you’re not even sure if you or your partner are going to end up liking it.

    Buy some comfortable rope cuffs or some fuzzy handcuffs and start from there. It’s quite literally like learning to walk; if you jump right into running a marathon, you’re going to hurt yourself, possibly badly. Start at a walk and work your way up in to the really exciting stuff. Besides, the anticipation of trying something new makes it even more exciting!

  3. SPEAK UP! Don’t continue using a new toy or technique if you don’t enjoy it or it makes you uncomfortable. All that’s going to do is ruin your desire to continue having sex. If you don’t like something, make sure you speak up and let your partner know so you can either adjust it so it’s enjoyable or leave it out altogether.
  4. Use what you have. If you’re thinking about adding toys to the bedroom but don’t want to invest a ton of money, consider using what you already have on hand. Panties or other undergarments can make great make-shift restraints. Cell phones can double as vibrators, even without spamming phone calls to keep it active: most smart phones have vibrator apps that you can download. Even the innocent bobby pin can double as an adjustable nipple clamp!
  5. shop-togetherShop together! Don’t just start picking up random toys without consulting your partner. Instead, start planning a joint shopping trip. Not only does it give you a chance to communicate your preferences, shopping together can really ramp up the mood and make your toy introduction even sexier.
  6. Find out if she already has one. Most women own at least one toy, for use when they’re on their own or with a partner. If you’re interested in adding toys to your sexual encounters, try asking your partner if they already have one that they really enjoy using. If she’s interested, try adding her personal toy to your sexual escapades. She already knows that she enjoys this toy, so adding it to your encounters has the potential to make her orgasms totally mind blowing.
  7. RELAX! Just like any other encounter, adding toys to the bedroom is only fun if you RELAX! Stressing out over the toys or over having sex will make it harder for you to enjoy yourself, and if you’re stressed out mood spreads, it can ruin the entire evening! Don’t focus on the toys, just do what feels right and everything else will fall into place.

Don’t get discouraged if your partner isn’t interested in bringing toys into the bedroom. While they can be a great tool to help increase your enjoyment and make your orgasms even greater, not everyone is comfortable with them. And remember: they aren’t the only way to spice up the bedroom! Just remember to talk to your partner, and once you know what you both enjoy, feel free to be a little creative!